To calm the face of setbacks and failures, often because of things they can have a correct view. In fact, open-minded character who is an optimistic state of mind.
in real life, we often find this phenomenon, when we encounter a thing, if we are full of optimism and enthusiasm, this thing will be for the better development. Once we feel despair and do think the worse things will become more worse. Why is this the case? I'd rather give you a little story that everyone thought.
just development on the African continent, British company with a production of shoes. Owners want to open markets in Africa, so Africa has sent a salesman to visit. The salesman experienced and prudent is a pessimistic guy, failing to always love to think the worse, and he sat ship to Africa, and found all the inhabitants of Africa, no shoes on bare feet, he disappointed, the company took a telegram, the message is:
boss frustrated after receiving the telegram, and I feel very bad. This time his son into the office and saw his father unhappy, he asked how is it? After hearing the case said the boss, the young man said: graduate, let him go away and try Ye Hao, agreed.
optimistic about the young people of this ship to get the African continent. He saw the same one scenario, all the locals are barefoot. The difference is that the young man was overjoyed, and he took a telegram to his father. Message is: made a fortune in Africa.
see the same face of a thing, because the mind will have a completely different with different results. Optimistic attitude to bring a positive action, and pessimistic attitude will only lead to negative thoughts, to make you into trouble. So, if there is less time friend optimistic, pessimistic, and more time living, I'm here to give you a celebrity humor: the latter invented the parachute.
Here, I want to tell you a true story, so a young friend, from childhood to grow dark and thin, he was five, when his parents divorced, the court awarded him father, stepmother of one of their own children is love, for he was very fierce. He not only allowed to meet with the biological mother, but also often beat him, this time in his junior high school, who are often black and blue. And because he looks thin, but also often bullied by others at school. Seventeen-year-old in his time, he had to fight for independence began to think of ways to make money, he put off stall, sold corn, or even sent over soft drinks. To the twenty-year-old, he was invited to join a chain of friends to promote the cause, may finally going to be the Director in his time, his system was accidentally suffered a major setback hit, so he had to start all over again once. The young man looked bad enough, right? But he was very happy life. Some may ask: Although my experience ups and downs, but I was very young to learn to use an optimistic attitude towards life. Some people have asked me: This is not because I am defective, but I had already figured out, I told my father, stepmother in marriage, already have three biological children, her natural maternal no extra points to me, and if I like her Several of her own children the same,UGG boots clearance, I would not so long ago to fight for independence consciously not have been so successful, because several children in her own spoiled her great did not amount to anything. I am very grateful to both my elementary school junior high school students who bullied me,UGGs, precisely because of their bullying inspired me to do some strong belief in the future. I think it is these ups and downs makes me. However, sometimes I would think that if I am a pessimist, then I may concern the future.
we usually do not know a lot of friends because of the lack of optimism or intentionally loaded deep, anyway, is always black with a face every day once a rare smile. In fact, laughter is the best way to show your optimistic. You think about every day we first came in to tell a new friend, our cause is a good opportunity, is a business owner, but if we first got new friends, see our own lackadaisical frown all day, talking about words is moan and groan, then I assure you, were you finally invited to a few people, not quietly leave you with your silence is a relatively listless. They not only do not believe what you say, there may even turn to say to you: excitement, learn to laugh, with our optimism to infect others.
Having said that, some people will ask:
Jerry was an unusual person, and his mood is always good, but the thing is always have their own views.
When someone asked him how he was, he replied:
He was a hotel manager, is a unique manager. Because he replaced a few hotels, but there are several restaurants should be related to his students quit. He encouraged those who were born. If any employees in a bad mood, Jerry will tell how he had to look at things positive. This attitude really made me curious, and finally one day I said Jerry, It's hard to do! One can not always look at the bright side of things.
Jerry replied: happy. Every time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim, you can choose something from high school,UGG boots, I chose to learn from them. every time someone went to complain and complain in front of me, I can choose to accept their complaining, you can also Select point out the positive. I chose the latter.
I received some heartfelt words of Jerry, did not take long, I left the hotel to start their own business. We lost touch, but I often think of him, especially when I had chosen life rather than against it.
few years later, I heard that Jerry did a hotel staff never to do: One morning, he forgot to turn off the back door, robbed by three robbers who stopped by. Bandit because of intense and frightened,bailey UGG boots, for he was fired. Fortunately, Jerry was found earlier, was admitted to the emergency room. After 18 hours of rescue, and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was discharged, but there is still a small part of the shrapnel left in his body.
6 months after the event, I met Jerry. I asked him how he was, he replied:
First, live. I chose to live.
from their eyes, I read that I was a dead man, I know I need to take some action.
have able-bodied nurse shouting questions at me, she asked me if I did not allergic to anything? I immediately replied, I took a deep breath, then shouted:
Jerry lived, thanks to skillful hand of doctors, on the other hand thanks to his optimistic attitude towards life.
from him, I learned life is full of choices, and life, attitude is everything.
Dear friends, we are actually faced with two options, one is pessimistic and negative to the pursuit of pain; one is positive and optimistic to embrace life. If I choose, I am sure the latter.
a person to adjust himself to be as light as Jerry, infection, and inspire someone else. So we say good, say good, encouraging people to see the bright side. For example, the other suffered a loss, you tell him: Someone had an accident, you comfort him: friends said he heard that she was having an affair his wife, you can encourage him: beautiful; Second, even if true, you should be happy, a wife has finally exposed the exposure, and congratulate you, there has been re-select a good opportunity for like-minded partners.
However, I must tell you here, and some places you do not use such words of encouragement. Unfortunately, like your friend is dead loved ones, you do not say:
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